I was recently at a business function at a local swimming pool; the same that I used to swim in as a child. While there I took notice of the diving boards that I remembered jumping off of. There are two diving boards, a low one and a high one. Back then the “high dive” absolutely terrified me. I distinctly remember the fear I used to have jumping off of that diving board; so much so that I prayed to God each time I climbed that ladder and walked to the edge of the board. “Please,” I asked, “see me through this.”
While I still have issues with heights I have to admit looking at that “high” diving board at present didn’t necessarily impress me all that much. Inside I shook my head in disbelief at the child who thought it was so big a deal that his very survival depended on praying each time.
In our personal lives sometimes Jesus brings us to the cross road. The place where we need to change course and walk in faith. I’m going through that right now and I can admit that it can be scary. I have been praying, “Please, see me through this.”
I’ve been thinking about that diving board and feeling that, twenty-five years from now, I’ll look back and shake my head at the man I am now and say, “why were you so worried over something as little as that?”
It’s bound to happen. Someone, someday is going to falsely accuse you of something. No doubt it has already happened; probably more than once. One of the challenges that Christians face is how to react in such a circumstance; when we are being verbally attacked, accused, or just straight up put-down. The natural reaction is to defend ourselves and make quick justification of our actions, nature, or character. Of course as we find in many instances the natural reaction is not necessarily the Christian reaction.
When I say the Christian reaction, I mean the reaction of Jesus, because “Christian” should mean “like Christ”. So then what would Jesus do? In his Sermon on the Mount Jesus taught, “But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.” (Matthew 5:39) I think it is mistake simply to take this verse and apply it to a physical assault and conclude it has no relevance to a verbal attack. In the same discourse, Jesus takes the Old Testament law of “do not murder” and extends it to include speaking abusively of another. (Matt 5:21–22) If this is true, that Jesus’ words do apply to all forms of conflict, then whenever we are spoken against we should not seize the opportunity to mount a defense but rather to turn the other cheek. This was the example Jesus himself set. Note what was written about Jesus in the face of accusation:
“And while He was being accused by the chief priests and elders, He answered nothing. Then Pilate said to Him, “Do You not hear how many things they testify against You?” But He answered him not one word, so that the governor marveled greatly.” — Matthew 27:12–14
The early Christians, under the teaching of the Holy Spirit, saw this was the fulfillment of what the prophet Isaiah had written, “He was oppressed and He was afflicted, Yet He opened not His mouth; He was led as a lamb to the slaughter, And as a sheep before its shearers is silent, So He opened not His mouth.” (Isaiah 53:7)
This proved true beyond his trial unto his execution, where the Son of God, hung from the cross as a criminal was mocked, defamed, and insulted by his executioners, onlookers, and even the criminals that were hung next to him. During this horrific trial he spoke neither a word in his defense or against his accusers. Instead he simply prayed for them to be forgiven. (Luke 23:24)
In looking at this issue of how to respond in the face of unjust accusation we have a whole entire book of the Bible that deals with this very thing, the book of Job. Though the basic story might be a familiar one with a knowledge of the Bible the overall themes of the book might be overlooked. I know myself that I didn’t grasp some of these though I have known the Bible story from childhood. For those unfamiliar, the book of Job deals with a righteous man that falls into hardship through no fault of his own. His friends arrive and proceed to falsely accuse him, saying that his misfortune was the result of his own unrighteousness. Unbeknownst to Job, their accusations against him are simply the charges of his invisible, primary accuser, Satan.
Though we may be accustomed to think of Satan as a name, really it is only a title, which in Hebrew means accuser, just as Devil carries a similar meaning in Greek. This is the primary role that this creature plays. In Revelation he is depicted as a great dragon and is called “the accuser of our brothers” (Revelation 12:10) It comes as no surprise then to find Satan acting in such a function within the opening chapter of Job, as he charges Job with selfishness and impropriety in his service and worship of God.
What is interesting to me though is not Satan’s charges but what God himself says about Job. In the very first verse of the book it contains this spectacular summary of the him, “There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name [was] Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and eschewed evil” (Job 1:1) When Satan enters before the throne of Heaven to challenge Job, the Sovereign LORD himself reiterates that Job is “perfect and upright” (Job 1:8) It is amazing to consider that endorsement; because I cannot think of a bigger praise of character than to declare someone perfect.
So was it true that Job, a mere human, was without defect? I have to think that as a fallen man Job made mistakes; but what this shows is how we see each other or ourselves is not nearly as important as to how our Heavenly Father views us. At Romans 4:17 it says that He “calls those things which be not as though they were.” It is comforting to see how the Father can exercise such faith with us and see us not as we are but as we are to be when we are raised in the immutable glory of Jesus.
In the book of Job, Satan is allowed to test Job’s character by bringing him into suffering. Why does God allow this? Is it simply to prove a point? I don’t believe that. One of my favorite chapters in Scripture is Romans chapter 8 as I have found it incredibly encouraging in times of trial, suffering, and accusation. In verse 28, Paul makes an insightful declaration, writing, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God.” In saying “all things” he makes a very broad statement. This shows that anything we face, be it good or bad, can contribute to the development of “those who are the called according to His purpose.” Just as this is true of us it was also true of the author of our faith, Christ Jesus. The book of Hebrews tells how Jesus was “made perfect” by the things he suffered and by the tests he faced. (Hebrews 5:9)
The majority of the book of Job is a dialog between Job and three so-called friends. These men seek to attribute the suffering and misfortune that has befallen Job as indicator of unrighteousness and inadequacy on his part. Job responds, the natural way, by defending himself against these allegations. After the end of the long verbal conflict between the four, a younger man named Elihu finally begins speaking with the wisdom of God. In doing he chastises Job for his self-righteousness, self defense, and his claiming “I am pure, without transgression; I am innocent, and there is no iniquity in me.” (Job 33:9)
This begs the question, what was so wrong with Job’s statement? Wasn’t he simply telling the truth and speaking the very thing that God himself said about him? Yes; however, the truth is that in times of accusation it is not up to us to defend our nature but rather it is God who justifies us. Consider that in the very first verse of the book, before there was ever a charge, Almighty God declared Job righteous. What could any mere human add to that or what could any other creature take away from that? Nothing. To me that is why the rest of the book of Job consists of both Elihu and God himself extolling his Sovereignty and His merit in way that made Job recognize that he was in contrast very, very small.
As Revelation 12:10 brings out Satan did not leave off his job of accusing the people of God — he continues to make accusation and sometimes this comes through the mouths of humans, even those near to us. Even the dear apostle Peter fell into speaking the words of Satan to the Lord Jesus. (Matthew 16:23) This is all part of our own being made perfect in the image of Jesus. This is where the power of Romans chapter 8 is particularly felt. I would like to consider just a few of the verses.
What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? (v. 31)
This verse in itself can suddenly make any adversary seem very, very insignificant compared to the Creator of the Universe.
He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things? (v. 32)
What then can anyone accuser take away from us if God gives us all things including his most precious possession, his son Jesus.
Who shall bring a charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. (v. 33)
Again we consider that is not we who justify ourselves but rather it is God who justifies us.
Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us. (v. 34)
The smallness of any who condemn and bring a charge against the elect of God is self-evident compared to the almighty power of the Most High.
In our consideration of Job 1:1 and in Romans 8:31 we saw how God acts as advocate on our behalf. Here Paul points out that we have yet another one making intercession for us, Jesus. Hebrews 4:15 says, “For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.” Jesus, our High Priest, actively defends us in face of our critics.
Earlier in Romans 8:26, Paul brings out yet a third-party in our defense, the Holy-Spirit which intercedes on our behalf. In his parting words to his faithful disciples recorded in John chapters 14 through 16, Jesus promised this powerful advocate would come to be us forever. (John 14:16)
We do well to keep in mind that whenever we face the accuser we then have three powerful advocates on our behalf, our Heavenly Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. Imagine if you will, Satan standing before the throne of the Almighty as pictured in the book of Job speaking something against you. No matter what charge he raises you have the Father, Jesus, and the Holy-Spirit speaking in your defense! To me that is such a wonderful and thrilling thought!
So what happens now when one of his earthly mouthpieces brings a charge against us? Again, it does us well to try and imagine what we could possibly speak on our behalf to add to the what is already being voiced in heaven by the Father, Jesus, and the Holy-Spirit. In cases like this it good not to fall into the sin of Job, self-justification, but rather to remain silent and let these three powerful advocates act on our behalf. In doing so we leave it to God to reconcile matters rather than to take matters into our own hands.
So then when we are being spoken against even cursed, are we simply to do nothing? Well it is true that we should follow the example of Jesus and say nothing at all in our personal defense; but, as the opportunity presents itself we can take a more constructive course. How so? Jesus tells us that we should, “bless those that curse you”. (Luke 6:28) In view of this Paul encourages Christians to, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Romans 12:21) Ultimately, this serves in the best interest of ourselves and those who would accuse us.
“Throw money out the window; watch the happy people catch it.” — Juliana Hatfield, Let’s Blow it All
Upon coming to Jesus I recognized that I had an obligation to be charitable toward the poor and to give toward anyone asking me. This was a topic that I wrote about in the August 3, 2006 entry, “Remember the Poor”. My previous way of doing things was to never give anything to anyone. So I enjoyed the new experience of being able to help those in need or sometimes just random strangers as the spirit lead me.
One day I was driving and I had some cash in my car and I was praying and considering that I might look for an opportunity to bless someone with it. As I was praying God spoke to me and told me to throw it out the window. This confused me quite a bit. “After all,” I thought, “wouldn’t it be better for me to give it a poor person than to waste it.” But again he spoke to me and told me to throw it out the window. Even though it wasn’t a large sum of money I will admit that it was tough to be obedient to throw money away like that.
God never really told me why he wanted me to do that. I had some thoughts, such as perhaps it was supposed to be a prophetic sign of something. Or I considered if it wasn’t that someone in need would later run across that money. Or I thought that it might just be to test me and refine my character in some way. But, in thinking about it I think I did learn something important. As I drove I was thinking about a person in need that I could’ve given the money to and then it occurred to me that it still wasn’t beyond God’s love or power to provide for them. He really didn’t need my money to do it.
Here is the radical, humbling truth of the matter — God doesn’t need us to give money to the poor and he can provide for their needs without us.
It may seem shocking but, like Jesus, I invite you to consider the birds. We start by picturing the familiar scene of an old man sitting on a park bench feeding pigeons. If the old man stopped coming would the pigeons starve? Jesus says, “Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?” (Matthew 6:26)
Although some birds do enjoy their daily bread by the generosity of little old men sitting on benches at a park throwing seed; for the most part the birds of heaven are provided for without any kind of human intervention. Jesus uses this example to show that in like manner God can provide for us.
But why do the scriptures repeatedly call for us to give generously to the poor and afflicted? Let’s go back to that old man in the park. What does he get out of it? Which of the pigeons ever turned around and said, “thank you”? Which of them ever returned the favor and took him out for a meal? Obviously, none. However, in feeding them man receives the personal happiness of taking care of God’s creation. As Jesus said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35)
Because God loves us he graces us with the opportunity to be just like him and to experience his joy. Notice how Jesus encourages us to be like our Father in these ways:
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor’ and ‘hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemy and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be like your Father in heaven, since he causes the sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Even the tax collectors do the same, don’t they? And if you only greet your brothers, what more do you do? Even the Gentiles do the same, don’t they? So then, be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” — Matthew 5:43–48
God doesn’t need us to give money to the poor and he can provide for their needs without us — yet he graciously allows us to provide for their needs in imitation of him so that we can know his joy and happiness.
I shared this thought with a friend one morning and later that day she had an experience that confirmed this truth. It is her habit to stop by a local gas station on her way to work for a drink. When moved to she will seek out a homeless individual or someone otherwise in need to give a little money to. On this day she had a ten dollar bill in her purse that she thought she might look for someone to give to. She spotted a homeless man coming up to the counter and thought that he might be in need. But, before she could give him the money he went up to the counter and handed a lottery ticket to the cashier. He said that he had found it on the ground and could she check and see if it was worth anything. In doing so he found out that it was a winning ticket; but, the prize was more than the store was allowed to give out of the register as the maximum payout was $600.
So while I do not condone the lottery, I do recognize that God can provide in miraculous ways like this and he doesn’t always choose to use our unrighteous riches. I believe realizing this can help keep our attitude in check when giving so that we do not think too highly of ourselves. It also reinforces what a true blessing it is that God will allow us to provide for the needs of others and to share in his joy!